It’s a common question, especially for those who, in moments of introspection, come to analyze their lives and relationships. The answer is not simple, because each of us perceives loneliness differently, depending on our own experiences and personality.

A huge challenge facing many couples today is finding a balance between dependence – the need for the other person – and independence – supporting and focusing on our own interests. Where and how do we find the fine line that separates healthy attachment and normal, natural dependence from the tendency to spend a lot of time away from our partner, with interests and concerns that do not include them?